Escort Etiquette is simple, treat her with respect.
When you call an New York, Chicago, Houston or Philadephia escort, escorts or an escort agency, or any escort in a major US city, never talk dirty with them. Escorts have no desire to talk dirt to you. Also introduce yourself to the escort. Hi my name is Bill or Mike and I am looking for ….
Although I may repeat myself, I will elaborate on cleanliness. Yes, take a shower before you arrive. Many men finish work, and try to squeeze in a quickie before they travel home or through town. Be honest, say to her, “I just finished work, can I jump in the shower for 5 minutes first. I would feel much better.”
Escorts are like any other women, if you are nice, clean, respectful, polite, and fun to be with, she will probably like you enough to consider getting closer to you. But you have to do your part first. If you walk into this with any expectations, you’ll only disappoint and frustrate yourself.
Always pay the agreed upon fees/monies up front. NEVER make the Escort ask for money. They are providing a service after all. When hiring an Escort for a week or more always pay half up front. This will put you high on the Escorts client list and you’ll get immediate attention in the future.
When you first meet up with your Escort be sure to leave the agreed monies/fees on the dresser, bed, coffee table, etc. always in plain view and expect the Escort to count it (wouldn’t you if your positions were reversed?).
Don’t be mean, on drugs, drunk, or try to rip her off. If you treat her badly in anyway, not only won’t she ever see you again, she may put you on a bad client list type web site that warns other escorts about you or call other escorts in the Ottawa area, giving your cell number and description. Although you may think cities like Ottawa are big, in this circle, Ottawa is very tight. Then other escorts won’t see you because you’ve been blacklisted and know your games.
Some escorts may ask you to see your identification. This shows her that you trust her and that your intentions are true. Have your ID available for the Escort to inspect. If you don’t trust your Escort enough to see your ID then you need to look elsewhere for companionship. Many escorts due this for safety reasons.
Expect the Escort to have told a trusted friend where they were going, for how long and with whom including details. Expect this trusted friend to have your contact information, e-mail address, cell number and even your hotel/house number as the information keeps flowing up until they arrive at your door. Escorts have friends too and to stay safe they keep the most trusted well, well informed..
If your first meeting with your Escort is in a hotel room EXPECT the Escort to go immediately to the bathroom to make sure there are no additional “guests”. Do not be alarmed by this. Sometimes clients surprise Escorts by bringing a friend or friends along without warning. Never a good idea!! This can annoy or even scare your Escort and will destroy the mood. Upon finding no unexpected guests you can then EXPECT the Escort to then lock all of the doors in the room including sliding glass doors and doors to joint/adjoining rooms. The time you have purchased is for you alone. With all the doors locked the Escort will have a much easier time concentrating on you and you on them.
Only offer beverages to your Escort which are sealed in bottles or cans. You could also expect your Escort to supply their own beverages for their own use. No Escort wants to get dosed with any kind of drug, or have to worry about it, so to avoid this it’s a great idea to follow the sealed bottle/can rule. If an Escort does accept a beverage from you EXPECT them to drink it fast or not to put the container down until it’s finished due to the above reasons. Once trust is established or you’re a repeat client this will not be such an issue.
This one is easy and common sense. DO NOT treat the Escort like an item/object. They are human beings, just like you and me, making their time available to you as eye candy on your arm, a dinner guest, a travel companion, a drinking buddy or what have you. Treat your Escort as you would have someone treat you and you’re likely to make a life long friend and have a hell of a lot more fun. The only time this doesn’t apply is in role playing exercises providing it’s consensual.
EXPECT your Escort to treat you professionally. They see you as a client and soon to be friend. They do not view you as their boyfriend/girlfriend. If you are looking for a relationship/romance then stick with a girlfriend/boyfriend and leave the Escorts to their ‘friends’ who enjoy their services.
Lastly, always tip your Escort, even if it’s a minor amount. Everyone likes to be told they are doing a great job and this gesture, if even $10, makes a world of difference.
Well, there you have it. I promise you if you follow these simple suggestions you will never have a problem contacting an Escort, setting up an appointment, having a great first meeting or enjoying your new found friend. The memories which can be generated by your success in following these suggestions are golden. Do yourself and the Escort a favor and play nice.